Ask Nice 7

Once you determine what it is you really want, others will be happy to help you attain it.

You must be careful now; if you inadvertently step over the line of acceptability you'll need to make amends quickly.

So, when I figure out what I want (doubtful) I need to ask politely?

I kinda figured out what I wanted but have to admit that I was not very nice about asking. In fact, I was pretty demanding. But all I want is a little updating to my house and I did ALL the work while it was for sale and since it didn't sell I think I DESERVE some updating done here for all the time I put in and yes, this is exactly how I presented my argument and yes, my volume may have been kind of loud but IWANTITIWANTITIWANTITIWANTITIWANTIT!!!!!